By Cynthia Lohr, a 17-year partner of the National Breast Cancer Foundation
February 3, 2026
This past October, my annual mammogram at the University of California, San Francisco (UCSF) was more than just a routine medical appointment. It was a profound moment of reflection, a journey through memory, and a reaffirmation of my commitment to a cause that has deeply shaped my life. As a patient, a daughter, a mother, a business leader, and a storyteller, I approached the sterile examination room with a complex tapestry of emotions, woven from personal history, familial legacy, and a fervent belief in the power of proactive health.
My connection to breast cancer advocacy is deeply personal, forged in the crucible of loss and amplified by a commitment to ensuring other families do not endure the same heartbreak. My mother, Carol Waldorf Lohr, a woman whose nurturing spirit and vibrant presence are still deeply felt, succumbed to metastatic breast cancer in 2008. Her passing left an indelible mark, not only on our family but also on my understanding of the devastating impact of this disease. It was shortly after her death that my own journey with breast cancer screening began, prompted by an anomaly detected by my physician. This led to a series of diagnostic exams, a period of intense anxiety that underscored the fragility of life and the critical importance of vigilance.
From Anxiety to a Sanctuary of Support: The Hall of Healing
The waiting room at UCSF, while outwardly a space of clinical anticipation, has become for me a sanctuary. The quiet hallway, adorned with exquisitely crafted botanical tiles, each a testament to the resilience and creativity of women who have battled breast cancer, offers a profound sense of comfort. These hand-made pieces, imprinted with delicate leaves, vibrant flowers, and sprigs of greenery, are not merely decorative; they are tangible expressions of hope, remembrance, and the enduring strength of the human spirit.
Each tile is a story in itself, often accompanied by a poem or a poignant thought. One particular tile, depicting a flowering tobacco plant (Nicotiana alata), featured a quote from the revered Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh: "We must be aware of the real problems of the world… Are you massaging Mother Earth with every step you take?" This simple yet profound message resonated deeply, reminding me of the interconnectedness of all life and the importance of mindful living, a lesson my mother embodied.
Another tile, featuring a resilient cactus – a symbol of toughness and blooming even in arid conditions – bore these tender words: "We were women of homes and gardens. Now one is gone. One still digs. And we both are not so far apart." This sentiment struck me viscerally. It spoke to the enduring bonds of sisterhood, the shared experiences of women navigating the complexities of life, and the quiet strength found in shared journeys, even across the veil of separation. These tiles, I realized, could have been created by me, for me, or for any woman who has faced the unexpected turns life can take, especially in the shadow of breast cancer.
As I moved through the hallway, my gaze lingering on the artistry and heartfelt messages, and then stepped out to view the serene meditation gardens, I felt an overwhelming sense of connection. The profound feelings of loss intertwined with a deep appreciation for the women who came before me. In those moments, my mother’s presence felt palpable. She lives on for me not just in the memories we share, but in the enduring beauty of a cactus bloom, the cool touch of glazed ceramic, and the conscious care I now dedicate to my own health and to the well-being of my two daughters.
A Mother’s Fight and a Daughter’s Resolve: The Genesis of Action
My mother’s battle with metastatic breast cancer was a stark and painful reminder of the aggressive nature of the disease and the urgent need for advancements in treatment and, critically, early detection. Her passing in 2008, after facing significant complications, cast a long shadow. It was this profound loss that ignited a fire within me, transforming personal grief into a powerful impetus for action.
The fear that initially accompanied my mammograms, a fear amplified by my family history, began to recede as I found purpose in advocating for others. Witnessing close friends diagnosed with breast cancer further solidified my resolve. I understood then that my own anxieties, while valid, could not paralyze me. Instead, I had to become a beacon of inspiration, not only to conquer my own fears but to serve as an example for others, a living testament to the possibility of overcoming the challenges posed by this disease, especially after my mother’s untimely passing.
The National Breast Cancer Foundation (NBCF) became a vital partner in this endeavor. Their unwavering commitment to their mantra, "Helping Women Now," resonates deeply with my personal mission. From providing crucial breast health education to facilitating life-affirming metastatic breast cancer retreats, NBCF has consistently demonstrated an unparalleled ability to build community with exuberance and compassion. Their work is not merely programmatic; it is sacred, touching lives and offering tangible support to women and families navigating the often-overwhelming landscape of a breast cancer diagnosis.
The Power of Early Detection: A Call to Action
The experience at UCSF served as a powerful reminder that early detection is not just a medical recommendation; it is a fundamental source of power. It is the ability to intercept the disease at its earliest stages, when treatment is most effective and survival rates are highest. This is why the work of organizations like NBCF, dedicated to ensuring access to screenings and vital support services, is so critical.
As we embark on a new year, I want to extend a heartfelt and loving nudge to anyone who has not yet scheduled their annual mammogram. Consider this your personal call to action. The medical landscape has evolved dramatically since my mother’s time. The advancements and innovations in care, the accessibility of cutting-edge treatments, and the robust community support networks that were not available to her, and to countless women before her, are now within reach.
My mother, I often reflect, could not have fathomed the progress we have made. The tireless efforts to eradicate this disease, which will unfortunately affect more than 1 in 8 women and their families over the course of their lifetimes, are a testament to decades of dedication, research, and advocacy.
A Legacy of Giving: The J. Lohr Touching Lives Initiative
The profound impact of breast cancer on our family has inspired a dedicated philanthropic effort. The Lohr family established the J. Lohr Touching Lives initiative to honor the memory of my mother, Carol. This initiative is more than just a financial commitment; it is a living embodiment of her nurturing spirit and a commitment to providing hope and support to women and families facing breast cancer when they need it most.
To date, the Touching Lives initiative has made a significant impact, generously donating over $1 million to support critical programs. These contributions have been instrumental in funding more than 8,000 mammograms and diagnostic screenings, ensuring that vital early detection services are accessible to those who may otherwise face barriers. Furthermore, the initiative has supported over 500,000 navigation and support services for underserved women across the nation, providing them with the guidance and resources they need to navigate their diagnosis and treatment.
A particularly impactful contribution has been the pilot funding for NBCF’s HOPE Kit program. These kits, designed to provide comfort and essential items to women undergoing treatment, have reached over 100,000 individuals, offering a tangible symbol of care and support during a challenging time. These collective efforts, deeply rooted in Carol’s legacy, have helped foster a culture of early detection, dignity, and unwavering compassion.
Navigating the Journey: Resources for Hope and Healing
The National Breast Cancer Foundation stands as a steadfast ally for anyone navigating a breast cancer diagnosis. Their comprehensive suite of resources is designed to empower, educate, and support. Whether you are seeking information about breast cancer support groups, require free educational resources to understand your diagnosis and treatment options, or need assistance finding a patient navigator in your area, NBCF is there to guide you.
The journey through breast cancer is rarely traveled alone. It is a path that requires strength, resilience, and a strong support system. By embracing early detection, fostering a spirit of community, and leveraging the invaluable resources available, we can collectively work towards a future where breast cancer is no longer a threat, but a memory. My mother’s legacy continues to inspire this fight, and with each mammogram, each act of support, and each story shared, we move closer to that brighter future.
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